There are times when no matter how much you’d like to hit it off with someone, it’s just not happening. Even if the two of you make sense as a couple on paper, the chemistry simply isn’t there, and not even Marie Curie could fix it.
And then there are moments when attraction seems to sparkle, until they themselves snap you right out of it. To some, those sudden turn-offs—better known as “icks”—can be surprisingly powerful. So TikToker Jess (@jls_1003) asked women on the platform to describe the worst ones guys have ever given them. From the way they talked to how they kept their house, here are the ways in which men instantly ruined their chances.
He stuck his finger in my mouth everytime I yawned and ruined my yawns
It was actually our first date. He literally fake proposed to me in the middle of a packed and tiny restaurant right after I told him I don’t like being the center of attention with people I don’t know “cause it’s just a funny prank”. I had to tell EVERYONE it was a joke, he went to the bathroom and I walked out. The waitress came running after me with my margarita in a to go cup and I never spoke to him again.
Spoke on tinder for a week, offered to have coffee and he agreed. When I got there he was sitting with someone. Both the other guy and I were puzzled and the Tinder guy said he wanted to meet both of us to see who he liked more. Me and the other guy both left together and are we’re besties till this day.
Went on a first date with a guy who I’d known for more than 7 years. Apparently he’d always had a crush on me and after a 4 years relationship I gave him a shot since he asked for “fair chance”. Anyway, date was very awkward since he mostly didn’t talk just looked at me. But that wasn’t the ick. He asked the waiter if he could pick the table. At first I thought cute, he wants privacy. I asked out of curiosity and he goes “I gotta have full vision of who enters and leaves the place. I’m carrying, since I always gotta protect who’s with me”. Strapped. At a bar….
He left [bodily fluids] streak on my fresh white sheets. And tried to say it wasn’t him. Sure the heck wasn’t me! Immediately blocked!
He got a parking ticket on the first date and expected me to pay half of it
While driving he accidentally shifted to N- freaked out and didn’t know what to do… I shifted back to drive and he asked how did I know that… like what??? lmao broke up with him the next day cause my dad would neverrrrr
he tried to rap the lyrics of a song while making eye contact w/ me and he kept messing up the words
He was eating his “healthy snack” tuna… laughed at a joke and accidentally spit the tuna in my eye.
Was a picky eater. Like chicken tendies and fries at an upscale restaurant picky.
would ask me to send fit checks then send a longggg video barking back at me and saying sorry mommy in between
this isn’t a petty reason at all but i was obsessed with this man and in a situationship w him for over 9 months and one day he bit his toenails in front of me bc he “didn’t have clippers” i left that same day and never saw him again
I went to the movies with him and there was a gentleman with special needs at the front, after walking away he broke out into laughter. I was disgusted, safe to say that was the last time I’d willingly see him
Tried to give me pet care advice… I’m a veterinary technician. Him… a common folk
He types “wuh about you” instead of what about you, bcos instead of because. I was irritated
he sent me a snap of him aggressively eating a cold family size can of green beans straight from the can while smiling at the camera.
Wore jelly shoes. Bright blue ones. With socks. I really wish I was joking but I’m not
He would drink protein shakes and his breath smelled like milk all the time. One night he was laying next to me and I literally flipped the lights on and sat up and asked him to leave bc his presence was giving me anxiety
the way he held his fork or spoon overhand like a small child.
My dog absolutely HATED him. And my dog loved my husband immediately. Trust your fur babies ladies!
Had a full blown tantrum about he was breaking out because his dad used the wrong detergent for his sensitive skin… he was 27, and that’s how I found out he lived with his parents.
Complained about literally everything. You are a man take care of it. Find a solution it’s not the end of the world.
He called my dog ugly…blocked him on everything
I made him some spaghetti sauce before I left for work, all he had to do was cook the pasta. he called me five times asking how to boil the noodles and then he still had to call his mom and have her walk him through it
met my family for the first time and asked “so, how old is everybody?” why the hell would you ask that? the cherry on top is after they left he made a joke about how now he cant choose between me or my mom
He still lived with his mom and had custom made bunk beds that he shared with his older brother. after the tour he pulled out his guitar and sang to me in front of his entire family.
He kept falling. Like just kept falling. And was freakishly tall and skinny so it was even weirder. And he’d just sit on the floor after and give puppy eyes like a little kid. Yucked me out so quick
We were in Hawaii…. And went on a snorkeling excursion. He had to use a floatie and wouldn’t swim under water…. But I was swimming and diving and I looked up and saw his skinny little legs kicking about holding onto the floatie and I absolutely could not ever sleep with that man again. It was a long plane ride home
He wore cowboy boots to our date, and when it came time to get down and dirty, I had to wait like what felt like 5 minutes for him to wrestle his d**n boots off, while his jeans were already at his ankles. Seeing a grown man lose a fight against cowboy boots really does something to ya.
“you don’t know how lucky you are to be talking to me” goodbye
Brought me an oatmeal raisin cookie from the cookie platter instead of a chocolate chip cookie because it was “healthier”.
one time during an argument, i turned around and caught him flexing in the mirror
When I texted him about something bad that happened he replied with “*cuddles you*”
The way his body pathetically whipped around when we went over a speed bump
He kept saying “remind you” instead of “mind you” I corrected him and we never spoke again.
kept telling me how poor he was. I’m not a material girl money isn’t a big deal but i would say like “oh yeah my brother got me a gift” and he goes “i could never do that i’m too poor for that” like okay???
Told me he usually goes after baddies but they don’t have personality, but I have a really cool personality. Wild
He laughed when his friend made a joke about me. I hated him instantly. Done.
Tried to play hide and go seek ON FT WITH ME and then started talking in a baby voice saying “you scwared mwe”
I told him if he was going to be disrespectful then we are done and he said “give me one time I was disrespectful” then burped
He picked me up and his car smelled good so I asked what scent his freshener was and he points to the back seat and it’s a LIT CANDLE
