{"id":35205,"date":"2026-08-09T21:36:28","date_gmt":"2026-08-09T16:36:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/usnews-14267fa.ingress-comporellon.ewp.live\/?p=35205"},"modified":"2026-08-09T21:36:28","modified_gmt":"2026-08-09T16:36:28","slug":"the-emotional-reason-your-teen-pushes-you-away-in-public-and-how-to-stop-triggering-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/usnews-14267fa.ingress-comporellon.ewp.live\/?p=35205","title":{"rendered":"The emotional reason your teen pushes you away in public (and how to stop triggering them)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><script>\r\n  atOptions = {\r\n    'key' : '644b717812d811d6a1c1fc5b6ccd6fa6',\r\n    'format' : 'iframe',\r\n    'height' : 90,\r\n    'width' : 728,\r\n    'params' : {}\r\n  };\r\n<\/script>\r\n<script src=\"https:\/\/www.highperformanceformat.com\/644b717812d811d6a1c1fc5b6ccd6fa6\/invoke.js\"><\/script>\r\n<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p id=\"e0MmAoKSQzG\" data-wc=\"59\">As a parent, one day out of nowhere, you&#8217;ll hear, &#8220;Dad, don\u2019t say that in front of people!&#8221;, or that age-old classic, &#8220;Mum, don&#8217;t kiss me in public!&#8221; Teenagers cringing at their parents is practically a rite of passage, particularly at a stage when every move is scrutinised, every detail compared, and the desire to belong eclipses everything else.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><ev-engagement id=\"horizon_hello\" group-name=\"horizon_hello\"\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"egS2Cdebtj\" data-wc=\"22\">In such a delicate social landscape, a parent can quickly shift from a comforting sanctuary to a fleeting source of deep embarrassment.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e1owFnmpeH5\" data-wc=\"50\">Far from indicating rejection, these reactions speak of the process of separation and autonomy that defines adolescence. As psychologist <a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.topdoctors.es\/doctor\/luis-guillen-plaza\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"article-body-link\">Luis Guill\u00e9n<\/a> from Psicopartner explains, detecting and understanding these moments allows families to <span class=\"fr-deletable gd-content-undefined gd-content-published\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-type=\"mention\/article\"><a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/healthandbeauty\/mother-and-baby\/20201203102006\/teenage-behaviour-explained-by-therapist\/\">navigate this transition<\/a><\/span> &#8211; and there&#8217;s a way to handle it without home life turning into a battlefield.\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3 data-wc=\"19\" id=\"h3-4msm0syn2\">Is it common for a teenager to feel embarrassed by their parents at times? What might be the causes?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"eS4ZemfHw4\" data-wc=\"42\">&#8220;It might be a common experience, but that doesn&#8217;t stop it from stinging a bit when it happens. Adolescence is a deeply social time, and teenagers often feel like they&#8217;re under a constant spotlight\u2014even when nobody is really paying them any mind.<\/p>\n<div class=\"fr-embedded\">\n<div data-wc=\"75\" id=\"ed2d-xumna\">\n<figure class=\"he-meIm-995f02\">\n<div class=\"he-imCo-14461c5\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/e670bb58ba0a-best-gifts-for-teenagers.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width:1360px) 630px, (min-width:960px) 60vw, (min-width:320px) calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2)), calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2))\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/e670bb58ba0a-best-gifts-for-teenagers.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_960 960w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/e670bb58ba0a-best-gifts-for-teenagers.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_640 640w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/e670bb58ba0a-best-gifts-for-teenagers.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_360 360w\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Group of young people outdoors, one teen in yellow shirt and orange beanie, others in casual clothing.\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" class=\"image he-image\" data-flatplan=\"fp_photoCaption\"\/><span class=\"he-imCr-1233683\">\u00a9 Getty Images\/iStockphoto<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"he-meImCa-17135c3\">Teens feel an overwhelming need to control how they&#8217;re seen because their own identity still feels so shaky<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"eNvYAjppANW\" data-wc=\"27\">&#8220;In that environment, parents stop feeling like a natural extension of themselves and start looking like a potential liability to their reputation in front of their friends.<\/p>\n<p id=\"eI46OKZ07V\" data-wc=\"31\">&#8220;Far from a lack of love for their parents, it&#8217;s usually much more about a teenager&#8217;s desperate need to belong. At that age, fitting in matters infinitely more than standing out.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p id=\"ek_zB94GW7\" data-wc=\"53\">&#8220;Any gesture that makes them feel childish, odd or exposed can spark instant embarrassment: an overly affectionate hug in public, the way mum or dad is dressed, an out-of-touch comment, or simply feeling like their parents are taking up too much space in a world where they&#8217;re trying to forge their own path.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div data-wc=\"50\" id=\"eqriJLyHBJ\">\n<figure class=\" he-theme he-quote hm-quote he-st-656cab style-2 -category-mother-and-baby\">\n<blockquote class=\"he-bl-1081603\" cite=\"\">\n<div class=\"gc-col-12 gd-cp-column\">\n<p id=\"eCvmQFqzfd7\">&#8220;The key is remembering that teenage embarrassment rarely says anything about the parent\u2014it just highlights how fragile the child&#8217;s self-esteem is at that point in their lives&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote><figcaption class=\"he-fi-1060aa9\">Psychologist Luis Guill\u00e9n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-wc=\"10\" id=\"h2-4msm0syn3\">&#8216;Social editing&#8217;: Subtle signs your teen feels self-conscious around you<\/h2>\n<h3 data-wc=\"15\" id=\"h3-4msm0syn4\">What attitudes might indicate that an adolescent feels this way about their parents at times?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"egOG3SDyrY\" data-wc=\"15\">&#8220;It usually shows up in subtle ways rather than big gestures. Your teenage child might:<\/p>\n<ul data-wc=\"34\" id=\"ul-4msm0syn5\">\n<li data-path-to-node=\"2,0\">Switch up their tone of voice around friends<\/li>\n<li data-path-to-node=\"2,0\">Ask you not to walk them right up to the school gate<\/li>\n<li data-path-to-node=\"2,0\">Dodge public displays of affection<\/li>\n<li data-path-to-node=\"2,0\">Constantly police what you say in front of others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p id=\"evspQBgg8XP\" data-wc=\"27\">&#8220;It&#8217;s not unusual for some teenagers to &#8216;socially edit&#8217; their parents\u2014telling them what to wear, what topics are off-limits or what definitely shouldn&#8217;t go on social media.<\/p>\n<p id=\"eYGL3lQba50\" data-wc=\"37\">&#8220;Hypervigilance is another attitude you might notice. That&#8217;s when the teen is constantly on edge about how their parents speak, whether they&#8217;re about to crack an uncool joke or if they&#8217;re drawing too much attention to themselves.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p id=\"eskGJ9o1-3p\" data-wc=\"40\">&#8220;Curiously, this sensitivity rarely exists at home\u2014it only really kicks in when there&#8217;s an audience. Adolescence carries a certain theatricality: teenagers feel an intense need to manage their public image precisely because their sense of self is still so fragile.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"fr-embedded\">\n<div data-wc=\"75\" id=\"ex37hVCY2k\">\n<figure class=\"he-meIm-995f02\">\n<div class=\"he-imCo-14461c5\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/eff797851511-teen-rolling-eyes-with-mother.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width:1360px) 630px, (min-width:960px) 60vw, (min-width:320px) calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2)), calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2))\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/eff797851511-teen-rolling-eyes-with-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_960 960w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/eff797851511-teen-rolling-eyes-with-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_640 640w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/eff797851511-teen-rolling-eyes-with-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_360 360w\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A teen rolling their eyes with headphones sits in the passenger seat as an older woman drives.\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" class=\"image he-image\" data-flatplan=\"fp_photoCaption\"\/><span class=\"he-imCr-1233683\">\u00a9 Getty Images<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"he-meImCa-17135c3\">Figuring out who they are apart from you &#8211; and sometimes rejecting what they once admired &#8211; is a healthy part of a teenager getting older<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-wc=\"9\" id=\"h2-4msm0syn6\">The crucial identity shift happening behind your teenager&#8217;s behavior<\/h2>\n<h3 data-wc=\"10\" id=\"h3-4msm0syn7\">What role does identity building play in all of this?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e1Sj_PeCp29\" data-wc=\"47\">&#8220;A central role. The teenager is trying to answer, even if they don&#8217;t verbalise it this way, a huge question: &#8216;Who am I, separate from my parents?&#8217; And to build their own identity, they need, in a way, to distance themselves from what defined them until then.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0-u1MmXNkl\" data-wc=\"58\">&#8220;That&#8217;s why they often reject exactly what they used to admire. It&#8217;s not inconsistency; it&#8217;s a pretty healthy psychological process. They need to try out new tastes, styles, ideas, and affiliations without feeling like they are still &#8216;so-and-so&#8217;s child.&#8217; Embarrassment arises when they feel their parents&#8217; presence threatens this new version of themselves that they are still rehearsing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div data-wc=\"50\" id=\"eGfOWxcPLD\">\n<figure class=\" he-theme he-quote hm-quote he-st-656cab style-2 -category-mother-and-baby\">\n<blockquote class=\"he-bl-1081603\" cite=\"\">\n<div class=\"gc-col-12 gd-cp-column\">\n<p id=\"ekUZUuQXIt_s\">&#8220;Growing up means chipping away at the &#8216;perfect child&#8217; image our parents built up\u2026 and coming to realise that our parents aren&#8217;t perfect either&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote><figcaption class=\"he-fi-1060aa9\">Psychologist Luis Guill\u00e9n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-wc=\"9\" id=\"h2-4msm0syn8\">Rejection vs autonomy: Why teenage boundary-setting feels so harsh<\/h2>\n<h3 data-wc=\"15\" id=\"h3-4msm0syn9\">Is it a sign of rejection, or rather a way of establishing distance and autonomy?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"edzkvILFpiu\" data-wc=\"38\">&#8220;In most cases, it&#8217;s more about autonomy than rejection. The thing is, teenage autonomy is rarely elegant. They don&#8217;t yet know how to set boundaries maturely, so they often do it with abruptness, awkwardness, or even unintentional cruelty.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0M6qoybIpW\" data-wc=\"52\">&#8220;The problem is that parents tend to interpret this distance as an emotional loss, when in reality the bond often remains intact. In fact, some teenagers need their parents enormously on an emotional level while at the same time feeling embarrassed by them in certain social contexts. That contradiction is very common.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"fr-embedded\">\n<div data-wc=\"75\" id=\"e3whcZ9-Vy\">\n<figure class=\"he-meIm-995f02\">\n<div class=\"he-imCo-14461c5\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/874b1927dcd5-teen-girl-ignoring-mother.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width:1360px) 630px, (min-width:960px) 60vw, (min-width:320px) calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2)), calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2))\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/874b1927dcd5-teen-girl-ignoring-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_960 960w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/874b1927dcd5-teen-girl-ignoring-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_640 640w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/874b1927dcd5-teen-girl-ignoring-mother.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_360 360w\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"teen girl ignoring mother\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" class=\"image he-image\" data-flatplan=\"fp_photoCaption\"\/><span class=\"he-imCr-1233683\">\u00a9 Getty Images<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"he-meImCa-17135c3\">Persistent contempt towards parents is a red flag, however<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-wc=\"8\" id=\"h2-4msm0syna\">Red flags: When teenage embarrassment signals <span class=\"fr-deletable gd-content-undefined gd-content-published\">family distress<\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 data-wc=\"17\" id=\"h3-4msm0synb\">What is the difference between temporary embarrassment, and a persistent embarassment that might indicate a deeper issue?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e0xeAXZutMw\" data-wc=\"39\">&#8220;Occasional embarrassment is contextual and flexible. It appears at certain ages, in specific social settings, and usually coexists with a healthy, affectionate relationship in private. The teenager gets irritated, protests, or distances themselves a bit, but then reconnects naturally.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e1Z8OngVmPt\" data-wc=\"53\">&#8220;Sustained embarrassment is different. In that case, we&#8217;re not just talking about social discomfort, but persistent rejection, contempt, or a constant need to hide their parents. It may be related to more <a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/healthandbeauty\/mother-and-baby\/853645\/how-to-parent-demanding-teenager\/\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"article-body-link\">complex family dynamics<\/a>: excessive control, humiliation, unresolved conflicts, or even fear of external judgement due to real situations of family dysfunction.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0Or0r-gZXa\" data-wc=\"26\">&#8220;When a teenager feels they have to &#8216;socially survive&#8217; their parents, it&#8217;s worth listening to what&#8217;s behind it instead of simply punishing them for their attitude.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3 data-wc=\"11\" id=\"h3-4msm0sync\">Why does social approval carry so much weight at this stage?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e1wvMQcqIhv\" data-wc=\"50\">&#8220;Because during adolescence, the peer group functions almost like an emotional mirror. Their identity isn&#8217;t yet consolidated, and they constantly need to check if they are accepted, admired or excluded. The adolescent brain is also particularly sensitive to social rewards. That&#8217;s why a friend&#8217;s opinion can have a disproportionate impact.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0ocycvkQic\" data-wc=\"52\">&#8220;At that age, belonging is not a whim: it&#8217;s experienced almost as a matter of emotional survival. That&#8217;s why they fear ridicule so much. What might seem irrelevant to an adult (a parent dancing, making jokes or saying something cheesy) can feel like a real threat to their position within the group.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0BwNETpe76\" data-wc=\"24\">&#8220;Over the years, you learn that you can&#8217;t control how others see you. Adolescence is precisely the stage where you still believe you can.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div class=\"fr-embedded\">\n<div data-wc=\"75\" id=\"e50Qq-C_GUm\">\n<figure class=\"he-meIm-995f02\">\n<div class=\"he-imCo-14461c5\"><img src=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/6a1fd04f6917-teen-boy-with-father.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (min-width:1360px) 630px, (min-width:960px) 60vw, (min-width:320px) calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2)), calc(100vw - (var(--page-gutter) * 2))\" srcset=\"https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/6a1fd04f6917-teen-boy-with-father.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_960 960w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/6a1fd04f6917-teen-boy-with-father.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_640 640w, https:\/\/images.hellomagazine.com\/horizon\/original_aspect_ratio\/6a1fd04f6917-teen-boy-with-father.jpg?tx=c_limit,w_360 360w\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Two individuals sit on grass; one wears a watch, the other has a beard.\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" class=\"image he-image\" data-flatplan=\"fp_photoCaption\"\/><span class=\"he-imCr-1233683\">\u00a9 Getty Images<\/span><\/div><figcaption class=\"he-meImCa-17135c3\">&#8216;Sometimes they&#8217;re not so much embarrassed by what their parents do as by the fear of how they will be interpreted by other teenagers,&#8217; says the expert<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 data-gid=\"e01_pRX_EpF\" data-wc=\"11\" id=\"h2-4msm0synd\">Social media and school gates: The highest-risk settings for teen anxiety<\/h2>\n<h3 data-wc=\"9\" id=\"h3-4msm0syne\">Which parenting behaviours tend to trigger teens the most?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e0BwsrHH42S\" data-wc=\"40\">&#8220;Mainly those that invade the teenager&#8217;s social space or infantilise them. Talking about private matters in front of others, using childhood nicknames, making jokes about their body or emotions or being overly effusive when they are trying to go unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e0qSxgAnGdL\" data-wc=\"81\">&#8220;They also feel very uncomfortable when they sense their parents are competing for attention in youth-oriented settings. It&#8217;s not because they don&#8217;t want them to be spontaneous, but because they are still learning to maintain their own social image. And then there&#8217;s something very interesting: sometimes they&#8217;re not so much embarrassed by what their parents do as by the fear of how they will be interpreted by other teenagers, who tend to be much crueller to each other than adults remember.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3 data-wc=\"14\" id=\"h3-4msm0synf\">Is it more common in certain contexts\u2014such as school, social media, or sports activities?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e1GuxFBMmJF\" data-wc=\"33\">&#8220;Yes, especially in contexts with high social exposure. <span class=\"fr-deletable gd-content-undefined\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-type=\"mention\/taxonomy\"><a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/tags\/school\/\">School<\/a><\/span> is probably the great emotional stage of adolescence: it&#8217;s where belonging, popularity, attractiveness and recognition are all at stake\u2026 and everything feels incredibly intense.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e1OC8exPAA-\" data-wc=\"30\">&#8220;Social media has greatly amplified this sensitivity because it makes one&#8217;s image permanent and public. Before, embarrassment lasted a few minutes; now it can be recorded, shared or commented on.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p id=\"edzlhlWPaKm\" data-wc=\"45\">&#8220;Many teenagers feel more control over their digital identity than their real life, and any parental intervention in that space can be experienced as an invasion. It also appears quite a lot in sports activities because they are often very competitive and socially hierarchical contexts.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div data-wc=\"50\" id=\"e_RuUtMsVEK\">\n<figure class=\" he-theme he-quote hm-quote he-st-656cab style-2 -category-mother-and-baby\">\n<blockquote class=\"he-bl-1081603 -no-figcaption\" cite=\"\">\n<div class=\"gc-col-12 gd-cp-column\" data-gid=\"egZ2x_j1WJxz\">\n<p id=\"efBkWxUsCms\">Teens don&#8217;t yet know how to set boundaries maturely, so they often do it with abruptness, awkwardness or even unintentional cruelty<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<h3 data-wc=\"19\" id=\"h3-4msm0syng\">What emotions are really behind that? Shame, fear of ridicule, insecurity or a need to fit in, for example?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e00HxSwEBbR\" data-wc=\"38\">&#8220;All of those, and also an enormous amount of <span class=\"fr-deletable gd-content-undefined gd-content-published\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-type=\"mention\/article\"><a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/healthandbeauty\/health-and-fitness\/886027\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-expert-advice\/\">self-consciousness<\/a><\/span>. Teenagers live in a state of self-awareness. They observe, compare and correct themselves constantly. That&#8217;s why any situation that makes them feel exposed can trigger embarrassment very quickly.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e1IUxwOhMdS\" data-wc=\"39\">&#8220;There is usually <span class=\"fr-deletable gd-content-undefined gd-content-published\" contenteditable=\"false\" data-type=\"mention\/article\"><a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/healthandbeauty\/health-and-fitness\/886027\/signs-of-low-self-esteem-expert-advice\/\">insecurity<\/a><\/span> behind it, rather than arrogance. Sometimes adults interpret certain teenage reactions as contempt, when they are actually social self-protection mechanisms: if I control how my parents act, maybe I can also control how I&#8217;m perceived.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3 data-wc=\"12\" id=\"h3-4msm0synh\">What can parents do to handle these episodes without taking them personally?<\/h3>\n<p id=\"e0Ric8j0i4f\" data-wc=\"49\">&#8220;The first thing is not to get into a battle of pride. Many conflicts worsen because <a class=\"hm-link he-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hellomagazine.com\/healthandbeauty\/mother-and-baby\/20201203102006\/teenage-behaviour-explained-by-therapist\/\" data-mrf-recirculation=\"article-body-link\">the adult responds from a place of hurt<\/a>: &#8216;After everything I do for you, you&#8217;re ashamed of me.&#8217; And although the pain is legitimate, turning it into a reproach usually increases the distance.<\/p>\n<div data-wc=\"50\" id=\"ezvjkKON6di-\">\n<figure class=\" he-theme he-quote hm-quote he-st-656cab style-2 -category-mother-and-baby\">\n<blockquote class=\"he-bl-1081603\" cite=\"\">\n<div class=\"gc-col-12 gd-cp-column\" data-gid=\"exqIR0w6tjb\">\n<p id=\"eVtM_rJ_DmQ\">&#8220;Teenage embarrassment doesn&#8217;t usually come from feeling superior, but from feeling extremely vulnerable&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote><figcaption class=\"he-fi-1060aa9\">Psychologist Luis Guill\u00e9n<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p id=\"e1yD5imbdJY\" data-wc=\"56\">&#8220;It works better to have some flexibility without losing your dignity. Understand that a teenager asking for less public exposure doesn&#8217;t mean they&#8217;ve stopped loving their parents. Sometimes it&#8217;s enough to respect minor social boundaries without dramatising. The relationship often improves a great deal when the teenager feels they don&#8217;t have to constantly defend their space.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e1-Eo9gBot9\" data-wc=\"35\">&#8220;And there&#8217;s something else that&#8217;s important: children forget many teenage arguments. 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