{"id":31180,"date":"2026-08-07T14:51:55","date_gmt":"2026-08-07T09:51:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/usnews-14267fa.ingress-comporellon.ewp.live\/?p=31180"},"modified":"2026-08-07T14:51:55","modified_gmt":"2026-08-07T09:51:55","slug":"why-many-parents-help-support-children-well-into-adulthood-npr","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/usnews-14267fa.ingress-comporellon.ewp.live\/?p=31180","title":{"rendered":"Why many parents help support children well into adulthood : NPR"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><script>\r\n  atOptions = {\r\n    'key' : '644b717812d811d6a1c1fc5b6ccd6fa6',\r\n    'format' : 'iframe',\r\n    'height' : 90,\r\n    'width' : 728,\r\n    'params' : {}\r\n  };\r\n<\/script>\r\n<script src=\"https:\/\/www.highperformanceformat.com\/644b717812d811d6a1c1fc5b6ccd6fa6\/invoke.js\"><\/script>\r\n<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div id=\"storytext\">\n<div id=\"resg-s1-137699\" class=\"bucketwrap image large\">\n<div class=\"imagewrap has-source-dimensions\" data-crop-type=\"\" style=\"&#10; 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They built their 1,500-square foot retirement home in South Carolina a bit larger than they might have, to include a bedroom for their 39-year-old son.\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>\n        <\/picture>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"credit-caption\">\n<div class=\"caption-wrap\">\n<div class=\"caption\" aria-label=\"Image caption\">\n<p>\n                Mabel Lago and her husband Tom on their 50th wedding anniversary. <br \/>They built their 1,500-square foot retirement home in South Carolina a bit larger than they might have, to include a bedroom for their 39-year-old son.<br \/>\n                <b class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>                    Mabel Lago<\/p>\n<p>                <\/b><br \/>\n                <b class=\"hide-caption\"><b>hide caption<\/b><\/b>\n            <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>            <b class=\"toggle-caption\"><br \/>\n              <svg class=\"icon icon--info\"><use href=\"#icon-info\"\/><\/svg><br \/>\n              <b>toggle caption<\/b><br \/>\n            <\/b>\n    <\/div>\n<p>    <span class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>        Mabel Lago<\/p>\n<p>    <\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Mabel Lago and her husband are retired and in their 70&#8217;s. But before they decided to move from New Jersey to South Carolina this year, they checked with their younger son. That&#8217;s because he was still living with them, at age 39.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We could not leave him behind, because he could not afford to live on his own,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Her son is a hard worker, she explains, but his job helping to manage a liquor store paid low wages and no benefits. He also has Type 1 diabetes, and his Affordable Care Act insurance was nearly a thousand dollars a month. So he came with them to South Carolina, where his plan now is a lot cheaper \u2014 but he hasn&#8217;t yet landed a new job.<\/p>\n<aside id=\"ad-backstage-wrap\" class=\"ad-wrap backstage\" aria-label=\"advertisement\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>&#8220;The young people have really been shafted, big time, with the economy, with the cost of living,&#8221; Lago said.<\/p>\n<p>She is among a majority of Americans who, <a href=\"https:\/\/news.northwesternmutual.com\/2026-06-01-Americas-Declaration-of-In-Dependence-More-Than-Half-of-Millennials-and-One-Third-of-Gen-X-Still-Feel-Financially-Dependent-on-their-Parents,-According-to-Northwestern-Mutual-2026-Planning-Progress-Study?printable=1\" target=\"_blank\">according to polls<\/a>, think it&#8217;s more difficult for young adults today to achieve financial independence than it was for their parents. It&#8217;s a view that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/short-reads\/2026\/07\/17\/majorities-of-americans-say-key-financial-milestones-are-harder-for-todays-young-adults-to-reach\/\" target=\"_blank\">grown sharply<\/a> in recent years, as prices for essentials such as housing, food and energy have shot up and inflation has stayed stubbornly elevated.<\/p>\n<div id=\"resnx-s1-5876223-100\" class=\"bucketwrap internallink insettwocolumn inset2col \">\n<div class=\"bucket img\">\n                  <a class=\"imagewrap\" id=\"featuredStackSquareImagenx-s1-5910711\" href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2026\/07\/30\/nx-s1-5910711\/renter-owner-wealth-gap\" data-metrics-ga4=\"{&quot;category&quot;:&quot;recirculation&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:&quot;story_recirculation_click&quot;,&quot;clickType&quot;:&quot;inset box&quot;,&quot;clickUrl&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.npr.org\\\/2026\\\/07\\\/30\\\/nx-s1-5910711\\\/renter-owner-wealth-gap&quot;}\"><picture><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-format=\"webp\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/webp\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/5464x5464+1364+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F2d%2Fa1%2Fad1109584afc978936ca62e3f2c0%2F2026-07-rentersgap-apointer-004.JPG\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" alt=\"Jay Washington, 38, stands for a portrait at his residence in Athens, Ga., earlier this month. Washington would like to own a home, but after a cycle of underemployment, he's not sure whether he'll ever be able to.\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/a>         <\/p>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKETBLOCK\" -->\n      <\/div>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKET IMG\" -->\n   <\/div>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RESNX-S1-5876223-100\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>Such concerns partly explain why most parents help <a href=\"https:\/\/www.aarp.org\/content\/dam\/aarp\/research\/topics\/work-finances-retirement\/financial-security-retirement\/midlife-adults-supporting-adult-children.doi.10.26419-2fres.00965.003.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">support their grown children<\/a> in some way, many well beyond the traditional age of financial independence. The share of 25- to 34-year-olds living with parents has also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.urban.org\/urban-wire\/high-housing-costs-are-keeping-more-young-adults-their-parents-homes?utm_source=urban_social&amp;utm_medium=facebook&amp;utm_campaign=affordability&amp;utm_id=organic&amp;utm_term=obj_social&amp;utm_content=housing&amp;fbclid=IwY2xjawThcNhwZG9mBWV4dG4DYWVtAjExAGJyaWQRMWlJNjRvNVdTOXB0WGpTbFdzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEe7guX1q1zrpQs5ag75E1HIUPMc_7iA5b9Uvhhb-T9dtm00FPQyjW3kuzY-EI_aem_DLG-HO0lRGZLAsmcamMCLA\" target=\"_blank\">nearly doubled<\/a> since 2005, to about 20%, according to the Urban Institute. One analysis found a third of all those under 35 are living <a href=\"https:\/\/www.realtor.com\/research\/adults-living-with-parents-june-26\/\" target=\"_blank\">back at home<\/a>, just shy of the record peak during the COVID-19 pandemic, even though most are employed.<\/p>\n<p>Lago and her husband built their 1,500-square foot retirement home in South Carolina a bit larger than they might have, to include a bedroom for their son. They also gave part of the land they bought to their older son, 43, who has a well-paying job but has not been able to buy a house on his single income. 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365px)\/3) - 30px), (min-width: 768px) calc(((100vw - 30px)\/3) - 30px), calc(100vw - 30px)\" class=\"img\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/675x675+304+0\/resize\/1100\/quality\/50\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd7%2Fdc%2Fffd065cc46aaa114be89331c9e18%2Fimage000006-3.JPG\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/675x675+304+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fd7%2Fdc%2Fffd065cc46aaa114be89331c9e18%2Fimage000006-3.JPG\" class=\"img\" alt=\"From left to right: Tom, Mabel, Chad and Ross Lago\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>\n        <\/picture>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"credit-caption\">\n<div class=\"caption-wrap\">\n<div class=\"caption\" aria-label=\"Image caption\">\n<p>\n                From left to right: Tom, Mabel, Chad and Ross Lago<br \/>\n                <b class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>                    Mabel Lago<\/p>\n<p>                <\/b><br \/>\n                <b class=\"hide-caption\"><b>hide caption<\/b><\/b>\n            <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>            <b class=\"toggle-caption\"><br \/>\n              <svg class=\"icon icon--info\"><use href=\"#icon-info\"\/><\/svg><br \/>\n              <b>toggle caption<\/b><br \/>\n            <\/b>\n    <\/div>\n<p>    <span class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>        Mabel Lago<\/p>\n<p>    <\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Lago is happy to help, but she and her husband have to watch their spending carefully. This year, as gas and food prices spiked, they cut back on driving and stopped eating beef. Now, they&#8217;re thinking not only of their own long term finances, but also that of their sons.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Did we plan for that when we had our children 40 years ago? No,&#8221; she said. &#8220;Do we plan for that now? Yes, we have to.&#8221;<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"edTag\">&#8220;A different economic landscape&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>Some parents have long helped children \u2014 pitching in so they can buy a first home, for example. But over recent decades, as families have gotten smaller and people marry later, researchers have found <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC6041143\/pdf\/nihms-975706.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">more parents<\/a> have done so and in larger amounts.<\/p>\n<div id=\"resnx-s1-5876223-101\" class=\"bucketwrap internallink insettwocolumn inset2col \">\n<div class=\"bucket img\">\n                  <a class=\"imagewrap\" id=\"featuredStackSquareImagenx-s1-5896065\" href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2026\/07\/29\/nx-s1-5896065\/personal-bankruptcy-rates-rising\" data-metrics-ga4=\"{&quot;category&quot;:&quot;recirculation&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:&quot;story_recirculation_click&quot;,&quot;clickType&quot;:&quot;inset box&quot;,&quot;clickUrl&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.npr.org\\\/2026\\\/07\\\/29\\\/nx-s1-5896065\\\/personal-bankruptcy-rates-rising&quot;}\"><picture><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-format=\"webp\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/webp\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/2328x2328+456+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fb8%2F2c%2F6e81bd2e4f9fa9b3c90ff6fc5557%2Fap21062421446501.jpg\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" alt=\"A close-up shows a hand holding various credit cards splayed out.\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/a>         <\/p>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKETBLOCK\" -->\n      <\/div>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKET IMG\" -->\n   <\/div>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RESNX-S1-5876223-101\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Young adults are kind of coming of age in a different economic landscape than their parents did,&#8221; said Rachel Minkin, a researcher at the Pew Research Center.<\/p>\n<p>A Pew survey this year found a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/short-reads\/2026\/07\/17\/majorities-of-americans-say-key-financial-milestones-are-harder-for-todays-young-adults-to-reach\/\" target=\"_blank\">growing majority<\/a> of Americans say it&#8217;s harder today for young people to find a job, pay for college, buy a home and save for the future. In a new survey question, 80% even agreed that &#8220;it&#8217;s harder for young adults today to cover basic expenses,&#8221; Minkin said.<\/p>\n<p>A 2024 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/social-trends\/2024\/01\/25\/key-milestones-for-young-adults-today-versus-30-years-ago\/#student-loan-and-mortgage-debt\" target=\"_blank\">Pew analysis<\/a> found young adults are also more likely to have student loan debt compared to three decades ago. And while the share with mortgage debt was about the same, the median amount of that debt adjusted for inflation was larger.<\/p>\n<p>This changing economic landscape has helped fuel the rise in adult children living with parents.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.aarp.org\/content\/dam\/aarp\/research\/topics\/work-finances-retirement\/financial-security-retirement\/midlife-adults-supporting-adult-children.doi.10.26419-2fres.00965.003.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">An AARP survey last year<\/a> found 75% of parents across income levels help support adult children in some way, from paying cellphone and Wi-Fi fees, to helping with transportation and rent, or giving straight cash. On average, that amounts to $7,000 a year.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s striking is that so many of the people we see in our survey actually were living independently for a while and then went back in with their parents, primarily because of financial pressures,&#8221; said Richard Johnson, who leads a financial security policy team at AARP.<\/p>\n<p>Most give because they want to, not because children need it, according to the survey. But many lower-income families said they help even though it hurts their own finances.<\/p>\n<aside id=\"ad-third-wrap\" class=\"ad-wrap third\" aria-label=\"advertisement\">\n<\/aside>\n<p>&#8220;When people have to divert what little resources they have to help their children, and they can&#8217;t put it toward retirement, that jeopardizes their own financial futures,&#8221; Johnson said.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"edTag\">Advising parents to protect their own retirement<\/h3>\n<p>Nate Kinzinger, a wealth manager affiliated with the financial services firm Northwestern Mutual, has seen this shift during his 25-year career. He&#8217;s had clients delay retirement in part to continue supporting adult children. So many have stepped in to pay student loan debt that he now advises families to consider the &#8220;return on investment&#8221; from a given field of study.<\/p>\n<p>Clients also help with down payments or high rent, especially when children live in big cities where the cost of living can far exceed early-career wages. Others pay a monthly stipend.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s usually some degree of guilt, you know, and there&#8217;s some degree of, well, the money&#8217;s in my account, so I can do it,'&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<div id=\"resnx-s1-5876223-102\" class=\"bucketwrap internallink insettwocolumn inset2col \">\n<div class=\"bucket img\">\n                  <a class=\"imagewrap\" id=\"featuredStackSquareImagenx-s1-5791499\" href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2026\/05\/15\/nx-s1-5791499\/gen-z-homeownership-increase\" data-metrics-ga4=\"{&quot;category&quot;:&quot;recirculation&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:&quot;story_recirculation_click&quot;,&quot;clickType&quot;:&quot;inset box&quot;,&quot;clickUrl&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.npr.org\\\/2026\\\/05\\\/15\\\/nx-s1-5791499\\\/gen-z-homeownership-increase&quot;}\"><picture><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-format=\"webp\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/webp\"\/><source srcset=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/85\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-original=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" type=\"image\/jpeg\"\/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/100\/quality\/100\/format\/jpeg\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-template=\"https:\/\/npr.brightspotcdn.com\/dims3\/default\/strip\/false\/crop\/3375x3375+9+0\/resize\/{width}\/quality\/{quality}\/format\/{format}\/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fnpr-brightspot.s3.amazonaws.com%2F38%2Fcd%2F25b86abe489fb8941d4197256d49%2F2026-04-genzhomeowners-npr-alvarado-0010.jpg\" data-format=\"jpeg\" class=\"img lazyOnLoad\" alt=\"Francisco Vazquez, 27, stands in front of his new home in Milwaukee, Wis. He was able to buy it after changing his career track and saving aggressively, including for one year while he lived rent free with his parents.\" loading=\"lazy\"\/><\/picture><\/a>         <\/p>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKETBLOCK\" -->\n      <\/div>\n<p><!-- END CLASS=\"BUCKET IMG\" -->\n   <\/div>\n<p><!-- END ID=\"RESNX-S1-5876223-102\" CLASS=\"BUCKETWRAP INTERNALLINK INSETTWOCOLUMN INSET2COL \" --><\/p>\n<p>Some continue regular payments even after retirement, he said, not understanding they will need that money later. &#8220;And so we&#8217;ll have to have those conversations of, all right, how do we close this gap for you, cause I&#8217;m not comfortable that you could continue doing this,&#8221; Kinzinger said.<\/p>\n<p>This year, Northwestern Mutual found in its own survey that <a href=\"https:\/\/news.northwesternmutual.com\/2026-06-01-Americas-Declaration-of-In-Dependence-More-Than-Half-of-Millennials-and-One-Third-of-Gen-X-Still-Feel-Financially-Dependent-on-their-Parents,-According-to-Northwestern-Mutual-2026-Planning-Progress-Study?printable=1\" target=\"_blank\">42% of Americans<\/a> still feel financially dependent on their parents. That included a third of Gen Xers, who are now middle-aged.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That was a bit of a shocking number,&#8221; he said. 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Their daughter and her family moved back in with them so she could become a stay-at-home mother.\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>\n        <\/picture>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"credit-caption\">\n<div class=\"caption-wrap\">\n<div class=\"caption\" aria-label=\"Image caption\">\n<p>\n                David Zucchero and his wife, Cindy Zucchero, are retired near Seattle. Their daughter and her family moved back in with them so she could become a stay-at-home mother.<br \/>\n                <b class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>                    David Zucchero<\/p>\n<p>                <\/b><br \/>\n                <b class=\"hide-caption\"><b>hide caption<\/b><\/b>\n            <\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p>            <b class=\"toggle-caption\"><br \/>\n              <svg class=\"icon icon--info\"><use href=\"#icon-info\"\/><\/svg><br \/>\n              <b>toggle caption<\/b><br \/>\n            <\/b>\n    <\/div>\n<p>    <span class=\"credit\" aria-label=\"Image credit\"><\/p>\n<p>        David Zucchero<\/p>\n<p>    <\/span>\n<\/div>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"edTag\">Is it coddling or the new norm?<\/h3>\n<p>David Zucchero and his wife are retired, living near Seattle, and have children ages 31, 32 and 34. Helping them out is &#8220;just an ongoing thing for all three kids,&#8221; he said, and it&#8217;s &#8220;gotten worse in the last, I&#8217;d say, five to eight years.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>To be clear, he&#8217;s well-off and all the children \u2014 or a spouse \u2014 make good pay. Over the years, the parents have helped with education and handed down old cars.<\/p>\n<p>But Seattle area home prices are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.redfin.com\/city\/16163\/WA\/Seattle\/housing-market\" target=\"_blank\">double<\/a> the national median. A year ago, one daughter moved back in with her husband and now two young kids, so she could be a stay-at-home mom. Another daughter wants to rent out her condo and move back home to cut down on expenses. And their son and his family? 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